root@smoker / # netstat -p
Active Internet connections (w/o servers)
Proto Recv-Q Send-Q Local Address Foreign Address State PID/Program name
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:43577 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http TIME_WAIT -
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:43438 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http TIME_WAIT -
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:52423 cs204p1.msg.sp1.ya:5050 ESTABLISHED 9968/kopete
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:43490 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http TIME_WAIT -
tcp 0 1 192.168.1.2:43586 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http SYN_SENT 18971/kopeteFc9968.
tcp 0 0 localhost:60971 localhost:nut ESTABLISHED 9578/upsmon
tcp 1 1 192.168.1.2:43584 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http CLOSING -
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:43558 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http TIME_WAIT -
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:48301 cs201p1.msg.sp1.ya:5050 ESTABLISHED 9968/kopete
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:43523 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http TIME_WAIT -
tcp 0 0 localhost:nut localhost:60971 ESTABLISHED 9640/upsd
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:42517 cs215p2.msg.ac4.ya:5050 ESTABLISHED 9968/kopete
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:43462 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http TIME_WAIT -
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:43516 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http TIME_WAIT -
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:43479 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http TIME_WAIT -
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:43405 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http TIME_WAIT -
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:43483 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http TIME_WAIT -
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:43563 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http TIME_WAIT -
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:43487 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http TIME_WAIT -
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:43483 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http TIME_WAIT -
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:43563 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http TIME_WAIT -
tcp 0 0 192.168.1.2:43487 rdis.msg.vip.sp1.y:http TIME_WAIT -

One other question, if this is kopete, how does it keep sending/receiving after I have closed the kopete app?

Since you're closing Kopete gracefully its probably decided to let those threads complete what they're doing before shutting them down. If you kill -9'd them instead (that is send them the KILL signal instead of the TERM signal) they'd go away immediately.