From mboxrd@z Thu Jan 1 00:00:00 1970 Received: from pigeon.gentoo.org ([208.92.234.80] helo=lists.gentoo.org) by finch.gentoo.org with esmtp (Exim 4.60) (envelope-from <gentoo-dev+bounces-40384-garchives=archives.gentoo.org@lists.gentoo.org>) id 1NxoDN-0007By-9v for garchives@archives.gentoo.org; Fri, 02 Apr 2010 21:15:41 +0000 Received: from pigeon.gentoo.org (localhost [127.0.0.1]) by pigeon.gentoo.org (Postfix) with SMTP id 17539E06E7; Fri, 2 Apr 2010 21:15:37 +0000 (UTC) Received: from mail-pv0-f181.google.com (mail-pv0-f181.google.com [74.125.83.181]) by pigeon.gentoo.org (Postfix) with ESMTP id 354E5E0995 for <gentoo-dev@lists.gentoo.org>; Fri, 2 Apr 2010 21:15:12 +0000 (UTC) Received: by pvg16 with SMTP id 16so954723pvg.40 for <gentoo-dev@lists.gentoo.org>; Fri, 02 Apr 2010 14:15:11 -0700 (PDT) DKIM-Signature: v=1; a=rsa-sha256; c=relaxed/relaxed; d=gmail.com; s=gamma; h=domainkey-signature:mime-version:sender:received:in-reply-to :references:date:x-google-sender-auth:received:message-id:subject :from:to:content-type; bh=CJYJKwg7Yc9oVsO3wV2PvLJYbX7fOTq5S3iY469FYGM=; b=tgAAzsbd/Y5suk0L8EgyCqLn5+6GZIEUvU2BXl5+791jCdk/lQwgAblnr2yx8+dLJk YRVrMCVEqPqMsuupHkMfhvXXJqBDrLDRVd6+dFz+IAZrRoTUQumBDqshCzMeBOONpGum xf0lYtTbpfqI6VRjkTh4tCYjD9qQVwBZvd8gM= DomainKey-Signature: a=rsa-sha1; c=nofws; d=gmail.com; s=gamma; h=mime-version:sender:in-reply-to:references:date :x-google-sender-auth:message-id:subject:from:to:content-type; b=Rlf8y+4RzGP8wnTrExwIprBuDU8tMG555qco4dYrKs8622GnLVISNRlNtsDqDdZ7Jc FkFygf69WCzKWBApzMLKGsznHDz2AbMHUNHmskN0Vk3Y0TP48KQOrMCElujECiSJ/1RY i0mHmNtyVCKS8hdpoatBCxhnNXgauMTcj+JQc= Precedence: bulk List-Post: <mailto:gentoo-dev@lists.gentoo.org> List-Help: <mailto:gentoo-dev+help@lists.gentoo.org> List-Unsubscribe: <mailto:gentoo-dev+unsubscribe@lists.gentoo.org> List-Subscribe: <mailto:gentoo-dev+subscribe@lists.gentoo.org> List-Id: Gentoo Linux mail <gentoo-dev.gentoo.org> X-BeenThere: gentoo-dev@lists.gentoo.org Reply-to: gentoo-dev@lists.gentoo.org MIME-Version: 1.0 Sender: nirbheek.chauhan@gmail.com Received: by 10.140.191.19 with HTTP; Fri, 2 Apr 2010 14:15:11 -0700 (PDT) In-Reply-To: <k2he117dbb91004020626nd681c5beyb0e16e6648b08925@mail.gmail.com> References: <q2s8b4c83ad1004011023sc1dc8f91m4b968068283fd0e8@mail.gmail.com> <k2he117dbb91004020626nd681c5beyb0e16e6648b08925@mail.gmail.com> Date: Sat, 3 Apr 2010 02:45:11 +0530 X-Google-Sender-Auth: bcb967267b9263c4 Received: by 10.141.101.17 with SMTP id d17mr1938581rvm.30.1270242911706; Fri, 02 Apr 2010 14:15:11 -0700 (PDT) Message-ID: <w2k8b4c83ad1004021415n154fe9d5x8fe90716e70bc56d@mail.gmail.com> Subject: Re: [gentoo-dev] Please don't turn this into a pissing match. (was: pkg_pretend USE validation and VALID_USE alternative) From: Nirbheek Chauhan <nirbheek@gentoo.org> To: gentoo-dev@lists.gentoo.org Content-Type: text/plain; charset=UTF-8 X-Archives-Salt: 004ae438-ade5-487a-bc59-e0d5ed303ca0 X-Archives-Hash: 2a8cb8769ac6b0eb3f6b73676cea2d60 On Fri, Apr 2, 2010 at 6:56 PM, Ben de Groot <yngwin@gentoo.org> wrote: > On 1 April 2010 19:23, Nirbheek Chauhan <nirbheek@gentoo.org> wrote: >> I don't want to point fingers in any one direction, [...] but I would >> really like it if the volatile mix of paludis/pkgcore developers would >> not explode all over the mailing list. Please don't let the discussions >> get personal. > > But you _should_ point fingers. The only way to make sure we have > civil discussions is to point out bad behavior and let people know > we don't tolerate that. And when such behavior is displayed > repeatedly, we should exclude such people from taking part in > our discussions. We don't need poisonous people, so let's > get rid of them. > I didn't personally point fingers in this case because me doing so in that discussion would not have been taken as a neutral party stance. Besides both sides were being childish; and sending one mail is easier than 2-3 ;p Neutral parties are constantly encouraged to put a stop to anti-social behaviour by polite means (and escalate when necessary). We don't like to see bytes being wasted on unproductive discussions, but we don't want a witch-hunt either :) -- ~Nirbheek Chauhan Gentoo GNOME+Mozilla Team